Why do you need to control everything?

Why do you need to control everything?
Humans want to control most situations in our lives.
It makes sense that feeling in control gives us a sense of security. It is important to feel safe. Unfortunately, life is unpredictable and we cannot always control.

We need to realize that we cannot control everything in order to feel safe. Some of us grew up in a very controlling environment and felt sensitive and suffocated. Today as adults doing everything we feel like no one will be able to take control of us. Therefore, the main reason we want control is security.

But with observation you can control your inner world, i.e. your thoughts and how you react to external events. Your inner world is a world you can create. How you feel, your behavior patterns, your beliefs are yours and if today you feel that they are not helping you, you can change them with supportive procedures.

Your life, when you stop operating from this habit and learned behavior of control, will take on another meaning. Think about how you feel when you fall in love or when you live in the moment without thinking. You feel free and happy because you live in the present completely, without the fear of what will happen. Life is what happens, we can't control everything. Life always brings the unexpected, what we didn't expect, didn't plan and didn't calculate.

Accept this reality and your everyday life will beautify. You will feel peace and well-being!!

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