How to create beautiful and healthy relationships?

Healthy boundaries make us have healthier and more functional relationships and therefore happier lives. Humans are social beings and we want to relate and create relationships of all kinds. This is wonderful, but we need to know what our needs are so that we don't end up being the ones who permanently withdraw from the relationship out of fear of abandonment or loneliness.

Proper communication is the key to a happy and better relationship. When we are in healthy friendly, companionable and professional relationships we function Better and we feel good. relationships should be a source of support, encouragement, acceptance, joy and sharing. If relationships are judgmental, operate with manipulative behaviors and lack of respect and trust, they become unbearable and a source of unhappiness.

Dan Wile, expert in Couple Therapy, through studies he has carried out, emphasizes that the partner you choose carries with him unresolved issues, just like each of us. There is no person without problems, conflicts and fears, but there are people who may recognize them and want to improve them.

In Human relations We need to show understanding because we are all different. It is good to ask ourselves why we chose this particular person? How does it help us in our development? Can He hear our needs? Do I listen to his?

In an age with very self-centered characteristics we stopped listening to the other, we only talk and demand, this does not help to have healthy relationships and leads to loneliness.

The key to having a relationship is to want to let go of your Ego and be able to listen to the other person, to feel them. Remember that the flexibility and acceptance are signs of high emotional intelligence.

"Compromise and Relationships"

Relationships are preeminently the area where we compromise otherwise everyone would stay alone at home and have superficial relationships without intimacy, love and care.

In the relationship we are two different people, with separate origins, beliefs, childhood traumas that trouble us and it is normal to have disagreements and conflicts.

Through each meeting we create a new unique relationship and try to be balanced and functional.

We need to succeed in our relationships because they are a source of happiness. Compromising means that I understand that I am not perfect and neither is the other person. He is a human being with strengths and flaws just like us.

There are clearly negative, critical people who all they do is to blame others, who don't give in and constantly project their ego. This category of people usually do not change. They are unhappy people who transfer their toxicity to others. These kinds of relationships are not worth our time because they usually make us feel unhappy and lonely.

Every Person who comes into our lives has something valuable to teach us about ourselves. It is important to have beautiful relationships that will be close to us in all phases of our lives. It is worth striving for our relationships because they give meaning to our everyday life and our lives.